4 Ways to Swap Burnout for Nourishment in Social Media

When Media Drain, How To Turn It Back Around

Do you notice you have the most scintillating copy and content to write for your clients on twitter and Facebook?

Do you notice, after a day braining the blazes out of it, you feel drained and dull? Personally, there are days I can’t remember what I wrote or the strategies I used to connect and engage my audience.

Social Media drain.  The constant buzz. The need to have something to say, and voracious need to beat the buzz with something better — if you write for a living or if you freelance with any form of content that has to fly out into the twitter-sphere, you’re set for one equation: all out, none in. The only answer to that math is a sum of empty.

Do these three things, and use the same tools you use for work to nourish your creativity,; you’ll flourish, and ultimately, your productivity will too.  But remember, it’s not about the product, it’s about the process.

1. “Our best and brightest need to stop viewing social media as a quick avenue to fame and fortune“(1)

View it as an avenue into conversation, an avenue for connection, an avenue and outlet for creativity.  But fame and fortune will drain you every time. You’re the best and brightest; you’re not a cog or a battery.

2. Take the quips, wisdoms, wise-cracks, and little gems of insight, and give them to yourself.

What?  Yes.  Carry a little notepad. Make it solid and physical.  When you think up a spark, write it to yourself first. Promote yourself first. Give yourself your own quotes, in your voice.

Your voice, which leads us to…

3. Allocate time to listen to your own values, your voice, your head.

Turn off everything. Take a 30 minute or hour walk if you can. Do something pointless, but enjoyably creative. Don’t be driven by brand-ese. Marketing is its own foghorn.  But your voice needs to be louder, and stronger, or you’ll lose the lungs to use that foghorn in work.

4.  Look at the ratio of time spent speaking in client “brand” or “voice” to the time spent just writing or speaking with your own voice.

If it’s 80/20 in favor of the brand, or the ad, turn it around.  I tried slam-poetry for a while; when I couldn’t go slam some poetry, I took walks and sang. Weird?  Irrelevant.  It made room for me in my life and authenticity and gave me back some perspective on my work as well.

You need meaning in your life to engage and create meaning.  But the bottom-line is: You need a life.  When media buzz become omnipresent, we lose all sense of connection.  By using the 4 strategies above, I turned my worst drain around, and funneled my resource back in to where the drain became an opportunity to re-fuel.

1. “The New American Brain Drain”

How to Freelance Your Fanny Into Meaningful Work

Working for someone whose mission and attitude you love:  You can’t buy that kind of client.  You can’t bill for that kind of client.  You can’t plan that kind of client.

But to have that kind of client makes working a journey and a discovery, instead of a drag or a slog.

So how do you give yourself the gift of meaningful work? After all, you’re freelancing: YOU get to choose, right?

The truth is, sometimes yes and sometimes no.

When I began freelancing, my first client looked like a winner.  This woman was a pearl with an artistic side-business and an elderly-care front business, and she talked shop like family. She just wanted to invite everybody in to the little shindig of her life, and pals was the catchword.

My job was a slightly unorthodox mix of promotion and some on-site care for the owner of the client’s apartment complex.

The bastard-blend of work could have been a warning.  At this point in my career, I would call it a definite red flag.  If my job is not clear as new paint, and carefully relegated to writing, branding, coaching, or social media support, I have come to expect blurry boundaries, arguments about rate, and increasing expectations as to my involvement and responsibility without increased pay.

It was no red-flag at the time. I was also a little starving on the work-frontier.

At the end of it, I got physically ill.  But I also cut ties professionally and completely.  What I didn’t cut was lingering awkwardness, and the fact that I was renting from said client’s client.

Awkward, yes. Uncomfortable, yes. Predictable? Avoidable? Probably not.

NOT MEANINGFUL WORK. NOT HEALTHY WORK.

The one thing I could have changed was my attitude of scarcity: that desperation that says take anything now you won’t make it you may not deserve better.

My next gig was better.  It came about not through starving, but through a friendship and referral. All right, I was in dire straits.  But I didn’t approach it as a kid in dire straits; I approached it like a manager interviewing a new employee.  Did I fit with this company?  Were they teachable?  Did they want to work with me, not pal around?

Most importantly: Did I resonate with their mission and business practice?

Personally, I cannot do branding work for a client whose mission or voice clash with mine.  It may be a universal rule of freelancing that good work is like a good marriage — compatibility and willingness to trust and communicate — but it is definitely a personal freelance rule for me.

Did I resonate? Yes.  Was it a perfect fit?  No, we talked it out. Was their mission meaningful and authentic?  Yes.

Do I love exploring the content they promote, hawking their courses across social media, and teaching their staff how to navigate blogging?  Absolutely yes.

I could not have planned this gig if I tried.  What I could do, and did, was own my voice, own my boundaries, respect my value — and remain open to the next opportunity.

You may not be able to plan the work that feels like play, exploration, or relationship, but you can do these three things to get in its way:

1. Know what you do, do what you do, and take clients who want what you do.

2. CHOOSE. Don’t dive for a gig out of desperation or wont. There is no scarcity of work.  Scarcity is fear in disguise, and it’s an attitude.

3.  Continue to develop YOUR voice. Without self-development, you won’t know if you’ve connected with a client who resonates or not.  You won’t have the chance to choose. You’ll lose your voice in the slog of someone’s brand.

So how do you find that sweet-spot of meaningful work?  Look out for it, expect it, and no — you can’t plan it.  But enjoy it when you get it — one good gig leads to another, as they say; and having a good time (or enjoying a good job) means giving a good time (and doing a good job).

Weird Works: Freelancing, Freelancers Union, BRANDING

 

Some of the best support I ever received in growing a business skips right along with THIS article (Why being weird works)

Be. YOU.

One hears the siren call of branding; the blast to put fangs into your FB posts; SEO and key words.  Don’t deviate!

The truth of the matter is, there’s balance.  Consistency is important.

But do you know what?  Being odd gets you clients; and being you is what you’re hired for — your audacity, your authenticity, your quirks and talents.  Communicate yourself well, with art and diligence and enthusiasm. But don’t  dumb down your highs, or spike your lows.  You don’t need to mainstream; you don’t need to slick.

Be an audacious son of a monkey.

Your words are important; and as important as your words is your voice.  Anyone can write empower; educate;  connect.  Who do those words connect to though?

To put it visually: Anyone can type a branding concept or word.  But what’s your font?  And where do you fling that beauty,  and with what heart or head or intent?

As the excellent freelancer does below, I shall quote Gervais: “People everywhere in the world will recognize and appreciate… innovation…. From my own experiences I’ve learned that quirky, different, fringe projects that may only be cult, often travel a lot better internationally. “

Travel yourself internationally.  Communicate well.  But don’t feel the compulsion to slick your metaphoric-hair down and stick to talking points.

If you’re an artist, a freelancer, a speaker, your audacity, your you is what gets you jobs.

It also gets you happy.

But who cares about that?  Pardon my flippancy.  Happiness also attracts clients.  So love what you do, and be yourself about it.